Wednesday, May 23, 2007

If you don't like what I write - don't make your problem mine

To all the guys out there thinking this is a personal attack on all of you:

I'm not writing this to bruise your egos. This is a documented posting of my life post a bad relationship. If you had taken the time to read the blog you would've been able to pick this up.

I'm documenting everything. The good dating. The bad dating. Even if a guy was nice, but not the next guy in my life.

So get the hell over yourselves and let me look for the guy that'll make my heart go boom.



Spencer Eggworth said...

funnily enough I have been happily married for 12 years to a woman who was once just like you.

Martin said...

I think the defensiveness is quite simple really: no one wants to be a number. Unfortunately, dating (as a concept and in its ideal form) is a numbers game -investigate 20 options and 1 is bound to be good, investigate 40 and your odds are twice as good, etc.

Personally, this feels wrong to me, probably because it kinda kills the whole "uniqueness" vibe (I actually find it quite depressing to be honest). That doesn't mean that it doesn't work for some people though...

Don't let anyone get to you, write whatever the hell you feel like writing!